Thinking of your family / Harriet Conn (^i^ Mom to Mike )Read >>
Thinking of your family / Harriet Conn (^i^ Mom to Mike )
Although we have never met Michelle & my daughter Samantha knew each other from school.Although not friends, Samantha remembers Michelle. We are practically neighbors and share the same pain. We are in our second year and it is so fresh for you. All I can say is to just go on as best you can. Don't let people tell u how u should feel. Everyone is different and everyone grieves differently. We tried The Compassionate Friends in Boca and it was sad but somewhat helpful. They r having a meeting tonight. They have meetings 2x a month, the first & third Monday of each month. If you r interested let me know. Your family seems like a tight knit one and just be there for each other.
On the day you were taken I thought that I would die I wondered where the time went? I asked allot of whys?? With people all around me I felt alone inside From all their words of comfort, I couldn't seem to hide, I thought I might be dreaming That I'd wake and find you here, I thought "This can't be happening." As I wiped another tear. On the day that you were laid to rest My heart broke yet again, I wondered if the pain would end, But mostly, I wondered when?? It's hard to be without you, At times the days seem long, Sometimes I just sit crying, When there's really nothing wrong. I wish we'd had more time, Before your life was done. I hope your resting peacefully, My precious son.
Thank you for visiting Bobby's website, we are touched by all of your candles with kind messages as well as your tributes and condolences Close
Missing you / Christy Dooley (My Uncle BOB )Read >>
Missing you / Christy Dooley (My Uncle BOB )
Bobby, everyday i wake up i have to remind myself that youre really gone and its not a dream i dont understand how this could happen, i just cant seem to believe it, its so unreal i feel like i just saw you at your house that sunday before you passed, you kyle, your dad and i were all in your room watching the world cup on your new plasma TV. i remember how happy you were to watch on HDTV and how you kept saying "isnt it so clear, look how clear it is" youre dad was sitting on there chair right next to us drinking a beer, watching the game right next to you, he invited us to stay over and run to publix with you to get maccoroni. but kyle and i decided to go to church since we missed it in the morning. ill never forget the last few moments with you, we were just about to leave but you insisted that we stay just one more minute, you were so excited to show us the crazy lady on cops that you taped. i only wish that i could go back to that Sunday, and would have went to church in the morning, so kyle and i could have stayed over for dinner that night, but little did we know that it would be the last time we saw you. ill never for get when you said bye to us, it was the usual Bobby hug and hand shake, that we all loved so much, and you said "see ya later Chris." Ill never forget all the times we spent together, all the laughs we shared and dumb things we siad i felt so comfortable around you we could tell each other everything, you were my uncle bob. you loved how me and kyle called you that. i loved how you always said " i love you, now say it back!" with just about every conversation that we had. i loved how you would talk to your mom"Diane, can you give me a back massage" or "Diane, can i have youre credit card, i need to get new shoes" and i know she loved it to she would always laugh and say "Bobby?" you both had such an admireable relationship. Kyle and i always loved hanging out with you, after all you were the one who encouraged us to be with eachother, i remember when we went to city place and you made us hold hands. you hung out with us for the first 3 months we dated, almost everyday. when it was time for kyle and I to go out alone, with out you we both were nervous becasue we didn't have you there to entertain. you could light up the world, Bobby. Ill never for get the way you drove with your one hand on the top of the steering wheel. with your eyes so diligently concentrated on the road. or somethimes with it resting on the bottom of the steering wheel, when you were a little bit more calmed down, relaxing, and your radar detector,when you turned your car on the beeping siren noise, and how you were always pushing the mute button, I remember you telling me, " this is so crazy if i get a ticket they will pay for it for the first year." and you got a ticket on La Chalet for going 60 in a 45, and i asked you if the radar company was going to pay for the ticket and you said, no, it's already been a year so much for that. oh and when your care got flooded after the hurricane and you made me drive to Ft. Lauderdale with you to pick it up when it was finished, you were very skeptical of his work, and made sure that he did a few things over while we were watching. you always loved someone elses company, which made sense because you had some much to say and so much love to share with other people, i know i enjoyed your company even though it sometimes took 4 hours to by shoes with you i wouldnt trade it for the world. You had the most loving, caring heart out of anyone i know. you were truly one of a kind. you always put a smile on my face, when i was feeling down. you always had the right words to say. Just the other day i heard Drop it like its hot- snoop Dog and i had a flashback of when me and you were driving in your car on tamrind ave singing together when the pimps in the crib, ma, drop it like its hot drop it like its hot.....i still remeber your faces and the way you would move your hands when you sang. you, Bobby were the best. and i know how proud your mom and dad are to have been the parents of the one and only Bobby Resciniti. I thank God that he blessed me with your friendship, and i know that thanks to Jesus's saving grace I will see you again, and it will be forever I will always miss you my uncle bob, Love your, "Chris" Close
Soo sorry for your loss / Harriet Conn (^i^ Mom to Mike )Read >>
Soo sorry for your loss / Harriet Conn (^i^ Mom to Mike )
I was looking at the website and tears came to my eyes almost immediately. I see the pictures and Bobby was smilling in all of them. Mike & Bobby must be in heaven together having a blast.I especially like the pics up in the mountains in Maggie Valley. I do know where Maggie Valley is. A lot of people from Fla. go up there.We have a place in Beech Mt., NC. The 21 years of memories you have of Bobby will last you the rest of your lives. My condolences to your entire family. We are from the same town and Michelle, I will have Sam look at the websites and hopefully she will remember you from school. Sam is going through a lot of changes right now, maybe you can help each other. We are all here for you whenever you need us. Sincerely, Harriet Conn Close
With Sympathy to Bobby's Mom / Robin~Aunt To Angel Eric Shavensky Read >>
With Sympathy to Bobby's Mom / Robin~Aunt To Angel Eric Shavensky
To Bobby's family: I want to apologize for calling "Bobby" Paul in my 1st tribute. For whatever reason his middle name stuck in my mind more than his first name. But no matter what name I said, I was thinking of him and had his picture in my mind. I am so sorry for your loss and wanted to offer my sympathy to you and your family at this most difficult time.
To Bobby's mom: I can only imagine the heartache you must be feeling. I have 2 children and I can't even imagine what I would do if something happened to them. They are mine & my husband's whole life. Life is not fair at times and I know we are not to question why things happen but it is hard not to. I know Bobby has brought you so much joy and pleasure. Bobby's life was a treasure, his memories are precious. May you find comfort in the love that you shared with him. God Bess you and your entire family. Close
I am so sorry for your loss / Robin~Aunt To Angel Eric Shavensky Read >>
I am so sorry for your loss / Robin~Aunt To Angel Eric Shavensky
To the entrie Paul Resciniti Family: I am so sorry for your loss. Losing someone you love leaves a hole in your heart that can never be filled. I'm sure Paul feels everyone's love. I sure could just by reading his tributes and candles.
To Paul's Dad: My brother lost his youngest son in April. He said it was his worst nightmare. He feels like he is getting worse and not getting better. My heart aches for him and for his loss. I see the pain in his eyes and in his every movement. There is nothing that I can say or do to take away his pain. Sure, he trys to go with the motion and live life the way he has to for the rest of the family, but his pain is so overwhelming. When I read your tribute and your candle today I had to write to you. It usually seems that the Mom's are able to express themselves more and in a lot of cases we think of the mother's more than we do of what the father is feeling. I'm not saying that is wrong, just that I think sometimes everyone thinks the fathers are doing okay because they have to be strong. You words are so beautiful and remind me of what my brother is feeling everyday. I am so sorry for your loss and also for the loss that everyone who loved Paul is experiencing.
I'm sure Paul feels his family's love and the love of his friends. How could he not. God Bless you all. I hope that his beautiful memories warm your heart each and every day. Wishing you peace always. Close
To my friends and family / Daine (Mother)
I wish my son, Bobby hadn't left. I wish I had him back but I know he is in a better place ~ Heaven!
I wish you wouldn't be afraid to speak my son's name. My son was very important to me. I need to hear that he was important to you also.
If I cry and get emotional when you talk about Bobby, I wish you knew that it isn't because you have hurt me. His passing is the cause of my tears. You have talked about him and you have allowed me to share my grief. I thank you for both.
Being the parent of a child who has passed is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn't shy away from me. I need you now more than ever.
I might be sad and I might cry, but please mention my son's name, the most pain comes when I think you have forgotten him.
I know that you think of and pray for me often. I also know that my child's passing pains you too. I wish you would let me know these things through a phone call, a card or note, or a real big hug.
I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over. This is extremely traumatic for me, but I wish you could understand that my grief will never be over. I will suffer the passing of my son until the day I leave.
I am working hard in my recovery, but I wish you could understand that I will never fully recover. I will forever miss him, and I will always grieve that he is gone from this world.
I wish you wouldn't expect me "not to think about it" or "be happy". For neither will ever happen.
I don't want to have a "Pity party", but I do wish you would let me grieve. I must hurt before I can heal.
I wish you understood how my life has been shattered. I know it is miserable for you to be around me when I'm feeling miserable, so please understand when I don't care to see anyone, or go anywhere.
When I say, "I'm doing okay", I wish you could understand that I don't "feel" okay and that I struggle daily.
I wish you knew that all of the grief reactions I'm having are very normal. Depression, anger, hopelessness and overwhelming sadness are all to be expected. So please excuse me when I'm quiet and withdrawn or irritable and cranky.
Your advice to "take it one day at a time" is excellent advice. However, a day is too much and too fast for me most of the time... I wish you could understand that I'm doing good to handle an hour at a time.
Please excuse me if I seem rude, it's certainly not my intent. Sometimes the world around me goes too fast and I need to get off. When I walk away, I wish you would let me find a quiet place to spend time alone.
I wish you understood that grief changes people. When my precious son, Bobby passed, a big part of me left with him. I am not the same person I was before he left and I will never be that person again.
I wish very much that you could understand ~ understand my loss and my grief. But, I pray daily that you must NEVER find out what living life after losing a child is like!
To a GREAT son......Bobby / Dad
To a GREAT son.....Bobby
I always teased Bobby by telling him, the year 1984 was unforgettable because Dan Marino came into the NFL. But for all those years, I was joking with him. Truth be known, 1984 was unforgettable because that's the year Bobby came into this world Spetember 9, 1984 at 12:03 pm.
I remember how proud I was as a father, to be blessed with a little baby boy. My first child. The feeling was indescribable. I held him for the first time and was shaking, my heart was racing. It was an amazing experience.
The next several years were something else. To witness his first step, his first words and to hear him say for the very first time, "Daddy, I love you" was incredible. Time was moving so fast. I remember taking Bobby to his first baseball game, first football game, fishing and learning how to ride a bike. What fond memories. As a young person, Bobby had such innocence, he was shy and so caring and very sensitive. As the years went on.....he kept those qualities. He grew up and became a fine, outstanding man. He had so many great qualities that made me proud to be his father. He was honest, caring, innocent, smart, sensitive, kind, giving, loyal and funny. One of his best qualities was his humility. But above all else, he was a good human being.
He was good to his friends and great to his family but most importantly.....he Loved Jesus, he was a good Christian.
Bobby was a dream child.
He and his mother were extremely close. They had a strong bond that will never be broke.
I miss seeing Bobby. I miss hugging him and hearing his voice. I miss his humor and wit. I miss his great smile.
I know he's in a better place but the human side of me misses him so much. I can't stop thinking about you...every second of the day....every day of the week.
It's early in the morning and it's your birthday, I am going to sit with Mom now and talk to her and pray.
To Bobby, the man who brought so much life to this world / Christy Dooley (My uncle bob!! )Read >>
To Bobby, the man who brought so much life to this world / Christy Dooley (My uncle bob!! )
I miss you so much. No words can express how i feel. When i remember the the times we had together, it makes me smile, but my heart also hurts so bad just knowing that i will never get to see your face again here on earth. I still cant believe your gone...my world is so different now. it wont ever be the same with out you. you brought so much life to my world. I will always remember you my uncle Bob. love always and forever, Chris
Bobby missing you so much / Kathy Bryant (KT amy Aaron mom )
Bobby, I will never forget meeting you for the first time and I loved your respect immediately for me, and for Katie. I have heard all my life how people "light up a room" but really until you came into our lives, our home, I really can say I can't think of anyone else that I actually felt the "light" in the room we hear about. The light was in your eyes, your smile, but mostly your amaing spirit. Bobby you had such passion, passion for life you appreciated, we should learn from you the excitement for everything you did and put your all into. Bobby I miss you and the way we all got so excited to see you and exclaim,"Bobby's here!" This does not seem real until the pain starts again, pain I or my family and surely your family have never felt. We hurt so bad Bobby but we know you don't. I know you cannot feel pain, just the ultimate joy. We just wish we knew just what you are doing, I just know your not just dancing around in the clouds. I know because every chance I get I research as much as I can to find out just what heaven is really like. I know it is so awesome, it's physical, a real place, a spiritual place, where you can actually run, play, sing (and be great at it!) You are still doing all the things you love. and I know you are on the beginning of an adventure we can't even imagine. I know you are with "nan" and your grandfather and they are showing you around. Bobby Your family is missing you so bad and I pray God will bring peace, comfort and understanding all the rest of their days. And I pray for miricles from God to let them know your love and your peace. I pray this for Katie too, to know peace, your peace, as she is hurting so very bad. And for Amy, and for Aaron, Ron and Ian. They are feeling lost without you. Bobby you were the best boyfriend to Katie and the best friend to both Amy and Katie and I thank you for that. You loved Katie good, so good. You protected her, kept her safe, and comforted her when she was in pain and only you had that majic touch when Katie had a migraine. Bobby, I remember when people asked about "katie's boyfriend" I remember to this day my response was, " I could not have DREAMED a better guy for my daughter! " I said that a lot. We had so many good times and I remember when I saw your toyota truck out front I felt all my kids were home. Bobby this is so hard and I dont even know if you know how we are all missing you when you feel no pain but somehow I think you get a glimpse without hurting and can just feel our love, and were still lovin you, lovin you lots. Bobby you will always be that special guy we will hold so close in our hearts forever. When you get a chance, give my dad a big hug from me. love you Bobby, missin you, hope the angels give you extra hugs xoxox Close
We Miss You / Mike Valerio (Cousin)
Hey Bobby, It jus still doesnt seem real. I dont think it ever will. I hope ur having fun up there with the rest of the family. Tell them all i said hi n i cant wait 2 c them. Every 1 misses u down here. I talk 2 Michelle almost everyday. But it seems like the family jus keeps getting worse without u here. I no God took u 4 a reason, but it had better b a damn good 1. Ull have u tell me when i get up there. But i jus wanted 2 let u no we all miss u n if u came back that would b the best. I love u Bobby. -Mike Close
The way you smiled. / Alisa Lindenberg (friend)Read >>
The way you smiled. / Alisa Lindenberg (friend)
I feel horrible. It's been over a month, and I just found out today. And to tell you the truth, I've been crying all day long. Bobby you're an amazing guy, and always brought out the biggest smile on my face. Whenever I would visit you at the pharmacy, (because my mom was in publix 24/7), I would talk to you forever. We would talk about the weirdest things; our jobs, cars, parties, discounts I could get you on that big screen tv you wanted from Circuit city. ;] (I got fired btw) We always used to talk about hanging out, but never got to. :( I don't think I've ever seen you ONCE with a frown on your face... your smile could light up any room. I love you Bobby, and miss you dearly.
I didn't even know... / Will Manning (none)Read >>
I didn't even know... / Will Manning (none)
I didn't even know bobby....but my cardiologist is aquainted with his mother. I heard about the accident the day after it happened, and I just came across this webpage. I read a few of the comments, and they are very touching...especially the one from bobby's g/f...absolutely....the saddest thing I have ever heard in my life. I offer my condolences to all of his loved ones...I'm sure he will be missed by many. Close
To the man who taught me how to love / Katie Bryant (best friend/former girlfriend )
Bobby I think of you every second. This just doesnt seem real. Tears are rolling down my face. How can this be, my bobby? Memories of us stream through my mind, just when I think I remembered everything about you, another new memory pops into my head. Bobby your the first guy I ever fell in love with. You would lift me up when I felt sad and you built up my self esteem, you made me believe I could do anything. I told you I wanted to be a doctor and you told me that I could do it. When I said I looked my worst you told be I looked beautiful. When I was sick you came over with flowers and my favorite candy because you just wanted me to be happy. If I said I was stupid, you got very upset and asked me not to say that. I remember one time I had a bad day at school and you drove me home and I was crying so hard and you pulled over and took your button down shirt off and handed to me and said "here wipe your tears with this" I said I would get makeup on it but you said you didnt care. You even let me blow my nose on it. You just wanted the people that you loved to be happy. I remember the times we would drive places we would just sing sooo loud, we loved singing together. We both werent good singers but we didnt care. We just loved having fun. Remember how long it took you to get me to sing? Your still the only one I feel comfortable singing in front of. I remember times it would be late and you would have to drive me home and I would say I'm going to take a nap and I'd close my eyes. I never told you this but I wasnt really sleeping. I heard you Bobby, I heard you whispering to me "I love you so much Katie" you said it a couple of times. I heard you, and I love you too. What about the red lights? We looked so foward to those red lights. Because we finally got a chance to kiss eachother again! And waiting in traffic was the best! :) We hated saying goodbye. I remember saying goodbye to you in my drive way like it was yesterday. Everytime you had to go home we would talk outside for a while and then I would walk to my door and wave while you were driving away and your hand would be waving out your window. Then as you got further away you opened your back window and waved out that one too and blew kisses. Then Id run inside and look out my window and you still be there waving! And Id wave and blow kisses back. Also I remember when we would meet at my locker and just hold hands and then you would walk me to my class and you would say "I love you, I'll miss you mmmuah!" And we see eachother an hour later, but still I couldnt wait to see you! Spending time in your awesome room was so fun. We would wrestle, you would always win. I always thought okay today Im going to win but no you were just soooo strong. Your mom thought we were beating eachother up so she would have to come in and make sure I was okay. :) Remember when we cooked for your family? That was so fun. I wish I could go back. You were a good cook, but a hyper one. After we all ate, you had to urge to take the thing from the sink and spray water in my face in front of your mom and sister. We all laughed. The best memory I have is when we had a little disagreement about somthing and we ended up making up and we were outside, I was just wiping the tears off my face and we both looked into the sky and all of a sudden we both saw a shooting star. We looked at eachother with amazement like did yous see that?? You got so excited and you hugged me and said "See that meant something Katie!" It really did Bobby. God gave us that speical moment together. Number 19 was our favorite, it was your locker number, hockey number, our anniversary number, the 19th was so speical. Sept. 19th I will hold so close to me. The day we got together. You still reminded me last Sept., making sure I wouldnt forget. How could I? So many memories Bobby, the cruise, Sanabelle, just cuddling, talking on the phone, text messaging me. We were meant to be best friends Bobby. All those 100s of notes that you wrote me I will treasure forever. I read them because I feel like your talking to me again. In one of then you wrote to me "I really do think God put us on this earth to be together" your right Bobby he did for many reasons. I am so glad you are my best friend. Even after everything we went through we couldnt stay away from eachother. We both knew we loved eachother too much. What I am going to miss a lot is now I will go back to PBCC and we cant meet up in the parking lot and I cant sit in your car and listen to your music and talk. Bobby I cant wait to see you again. I have been spending a lot of time with your family and they are the most wonderful family I have ever met. Thank you for bringing them into my life. I remember talking to you on July 12th and your mom was making you lunch and i thought how much of a wonderful mother she is caring about you so much. She is the best mom ever. Its just the way it is. I could go on and on but I want to say thank you for the beautiful memories, I will keep them in my heart for the rest of my life. One day I will find the man of my dreams whomever that will be and he better be a Bobby Resciniti type. or else. I love you Bobby. I cant wait to see your beautiful face again. You are my angel. My Bobby. Always and Forever, Love your Katie muah! muah! Close